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When was everyones first real girlfriend? (or boyfriend for that matter)

I'm not sure we want to go there. Knowing the crowd that frequents this joint, we're probably going ot end up with numerous stories that aren't suitable for individuals going through that phase of their lives.

Depending on your definition of real mine was at 15. She was a marine!

Well what do you mean by real girlfriend/boyfriend? [/i]

depending on how you define real...long term, sex, what?

My first real girlfriend for long term was when I was 16, first sex was with my ex-wife, when I was 22. I was raised mormon...and I believed it for a while...

Hehe.... um... I have a rather active past. Pry best to not go there

By real, it doesnt have to be a matter of sex or anything but I mean, I had a girlfriend in 6th grade. Thats not real. Someone you really liked or went out for a while. And elaborate if you want. How old were you when you first had sex. I mean, it can still be kept PG13. Vulgarness isnt nesisscary.

My first boyfriend was 7th grade...definately not mentioning any names. Anyway, Bio Jr. is my first long term relationship.

My first girlfriends name was Kami Long. We were in the 3rd grade and we were in love. But alas, it wasn't meant to be. My mother was friends with her mother (which is how we met) and they kept in touch over the years.

I moved away after 3rd grade.

She grew up to like crack. A lot.

I hate the answers to these but they're the truth - so whatever. I was 12 when I lost my virginity, but my first relationship of consequence occured when I was 18. However, the first relationship I had that had a semblance of maturity to it was when I was 29. It bares noting that I was engaged three times before I was 22 but never married once. Haven't been engaged since.

Hope it helps.

I actually think thats pretty cool. I havent even kissed a girl before. How many people can say that? It's sad. I think I'm just too shy. I'm not a shy person in general, but for something I have never done before. How do you get past that point. The only people who have liked me have either been butt ugly or I never knew till much later. Any suggestions?

canofcoke wrote:I havent even kissed a girl before. How do you get past that point. Any suggestions?

Don't worry about it. When the right time and person comes along it will come naturaly. You won't have to plan it out, it will just happen.

Of course thats what you want to happen, but I'm realistic. It doesnt always happen that way. What was it like for you?

Awkard and slightly embarrasing.

The first time, you don't really have any real idea what the hell you're supposed to be doing. You try to play it cool, but you're worried about your technique the whole time.

Things improve with practice

Ohh I dont know. It's depressing. Maybe I just have sexual tension. Just playing. I hope things get better.

They do, generally speaking...you need to be willing to bide your time - fewer complications that way.

Don't be sad that you haven't kissed a girl yet. The peer pressure that suggests that you should have done so by now and that you are less of a person because you haven't is a load of bollocks/crap. I fell for that, and all it does is add stress.

Relationships are very complex at times, moreso when you are not even sure who you are and where you are going (gals go in for that security stuff), and as for the sex, it is fun while you are doing it, but outside of a stable relationship (=marriage {carefully entered into}, IMO - others will disagree) it actually adds to the chaos rather than settles it...and I speak from personal experience.

You'll be fine, Canofcoke.